Is my problem too small/too big/too complicated to go to the EconREFS?

No! We are happy to talk to you about anything that is causing you stress, big or small. Common sources of “friction and stress” include academic classes, advisors and classmates, exams, and feelings of loneliness and isolation. Students also come to us when they are considering going on medical leave, or leaving MIT. Even if your problem isn’t listed, don’t hesitate to contact us. We are here to help!

What should I expect when I meet with a REF?

The REF will arrange to meet with you in person at a location of your choice. We prefer to meet in person because we cannot guarantee that our conversation will be confidential over email or the phone. However, this does not have to be a formal meeting! Often students will meet with a REF over lunch or some coffee.

During the meeting, the REF will listen to your concerns and ask questions to try to clarify the situation. He or she will not attempt to solve your problem or tell you what to do. Rather, through discussing the issue, he or she will try to clarify your options and help you choose among them.

If the problem is especially difficult or intractable, he or she may suggest other resources on campus that might be able to help you, such as the Ombuds Office, the Office of the Dean of Graduate Education, or MIT Mental Health and Counseling.

How does confidentiality work?

We will not share any information about your appointment with us without your permission except in the unusual situation of imminent risk of harm to self or others.

How do I become a REF?

We are always excited to have more students join us as REFS! To become a REF, you must

• Be enthusiastic about student mental health and well-being
• Attend a 40 hour training course through Conflict Management@MIT
• Spend at least 5 hours a month planning events and attending REFS meetings

Please contact us at econrefs@mit.edu anytime in the year if you are interested. We generally request applications once a year to coordinate with the training schedule, but we welcome anyone who wants to learn more about the EconREFS program.